{"id":20564,"date":"2023-01-05T10:35:44","date_gmt":"2023-01-05T09:35:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/about-unlove\/"},"modified":"2024-08-08T22:43:11","modified_gmt":"2024-08-08T20:43:11","slug":"om-ukaerlighed-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/om-ukaerlighed-2\/","title":{"rendered":"2-16 Om uk\u00e6rlighed"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"20564\" class=\"elementor elementor-20564 elementor-1672\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79d0fb42 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"79d0fb42\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-349ca832 elementor-pagination-position-inside elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-carousel\" data-id=\"349ca832\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;slides_to_show&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;navigation&quot;:&quot;dots&quot;,&quot;pause_on_hover&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;pause_on_interaction&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;effect&quot;:&quot;fade&quot;,&quot;autoplay_speed&quot;:7500,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;infinite&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;speed&quot;:500}\" data-widget_type=\"image-carousel.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel-wrapper swiper\" role=\"region\" aria-roledescription=\"carousel\" aria-label=\"Billedkarussel\" dir=\"ltr\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel swiper-wrapper\" aria-live=\"off\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"1 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/2-16-01-About-unlove-2.jpg\" alt=\"2-16-01 About unlove\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"2 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/2-16-02-About-unlove-2.jpg\" alt=\"2-16-02 About unlove\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"3 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/2-16-03-About-unlove-1.jpg\" alt=\"2-16-03 About unlove\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"4 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/2-16-04-About-unlove-1.jpg\" alt=\"2-16-04 About unlove\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-pagination\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5766b8ba elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5766b8ba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Adelsmanden spiller lut, slider og sl\u00e6ber for, at dronningen skal kunne elske ham. Dronningen synes, at han er en klovn. Det billede har hun stadig af ham, efter han har slidt sig ihjel.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-db0f44d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"db0f44d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fd8e03d e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"fd8e03d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9ca42f2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9ca42f2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">''Der var engang en meget udholdende mand, der faldt om, lige inden han n\u00e5ede pensionsalderen.''<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-592b306 p1-artikel elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"592b306\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Id\u00e9en <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">om uk\u00e6rlighed<\/span><\/h2><p>Elsker du din n\u00e6ste, som den f\u00f8rste og dig selv som den sidste? S\u00e5 er der for alvor basis for at indg\u00e5 i usunde og uk\u00e6rlige relationer. Ikke alene af den grund, at du behandler dig selv uk\u00e6rligt, men ogs\u00e5 fordi dine omgivelser ikke kan kompensere for din egen uk\u00e6rlighed. Uk\u00e6rligheden f\u00e5r os i relationer til at yde mere, end der er bel\u00e6g for og til at holde noget ud, fordi \u201cdet nok er mig, der er galt p\u00e5 den\u201d. Vi overh\u00f8rer vores f\u00f8lelser og rationaliserer os til l\u00f8sninger, der hj\u00e6lper os med at overleve, men ikke til at leve et godt liv.<\/p><p>Vi mennesker har det med at h\u00e5be p\u00e5 urealistisk forandring, ofte uden selv at g\u00f8re en aktiv indsats for forandringen.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8429348 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"8429348\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d6a9d4 elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-19302 elementor-global-9175 elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"7d6a9d4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" 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class=\"elementor-toc__header-title\">\n\t\t\t\tIndholdsfortegnelse\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div id=\"elementor-toc__7d6a9d4\" class=\"elementor-toc__body\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__spinner-container\">\n\t\t\t\t<i class=\"elementor-toc__spinner eicon-animation-spin eicon-loading\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-78e0b32 elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-24750 elementor-global-8620 elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"78e0b32\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\">\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"container\" data-elementor-id=\"24752\" class=\"elementor elementor-24752 elementor-8546 elementor-8546\" data-elementor-post-type=\"elementor_library\">\n\t\t\t\t<div data-dce-background-color=\"#FFFFFF45\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6ce35fbe e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"6ce35fbe\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;gradient&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-285192f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"285192f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Du skal v\u00e6re medlem for at se hele indholdet<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a0068be elementor-widget__width-auto elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"a0068be\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-sm\" href=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/buy\/shape-medlemsskab\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-chevron-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Bliv medlem<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9655f6a elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"9655f6a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div 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S\u00e5 er der for alvor basis for at indg\u00e5 i usunde og uk\u00e6rlige relationer. Ikke alene af den grund, at du behandler dig selv uk\u00e6rligt, men ogs\u00e5 fordi dine omgivelser ikke kan kompensere for din egen uk\u00e6rlighed. Uk\u00e6rligheden f\u00e5r os i relationer til at yde mere, end der er bel\u00e6g for og til at holde noget ud, fordi \u201cdet nok er mig, der er galt p\u00e5 den\u201d. Vi overh\u00f8rer vores f\u00f8lelser og rationaliserer os til l\u00f8sninger, der hj\u00e6lper os med at overleve, men ikke til at leve et godt liv.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":28,"featured_media":7941,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_surecart_dashboard_logo_width":"180px","_surecart_dashboard_show_logo":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_orders":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_invoices":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_subscriptions":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_downloads":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_billing":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_account":true,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2138],"tags":[2400],"display-group":[2399],"class_list":["post-20564","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-goer-verden-smukkere-2","tag-create-a-better-world-2-da","display-group-featured"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":6}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20564","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/28"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20564"}],"version-history":[{"count":28,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20564\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36325,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20564\/revisions\/36325"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7941"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20564"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20564"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20564"},{"taxonomy":"display-group","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/display-group?post=20564"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}