{"id":20527,"date":"2023-02-02T10:11:24","date_gmt":"2023-02-02T09:11:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/about-expectations-2\/"},"modified":"2024-08-08T22:45:37","modified_gmt":"2024-08-08T20:45:37","slug":"om-forventning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/om-forventning\/","title":{"rendered":"6-07 Om forventning"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"20527\" class=\"elementor elementor-20527 elementor-2614\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f8e933f e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"6f8e933f\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-552624a0 elementor-pagination-position-inside elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-carousel\" data-id=\"552624a0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;slides_to_show&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;navigation&quot;:&quot;dots&quot;,&quot;pause_on_hover&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;pause_on_interaction&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;effect&quot;:&quot;fade&quot;,&quot;autoplay_speed&quot;:7500,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;infinite&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;speed&quot;:500}\" data-widget_type=\"image-carousel.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel-wrapper swiper\" role=\"region\" aria-roledescription=\"carousel\" aria-label=\"Billedkarussel\" dir=\"ltr\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel swiper-wrapper\" aria-live=\"off\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"1 of 5\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/6-07-01-About-expectations-1.jpg\" alt=\"6-07-01-About-expectations\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"2 of 5\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/6-07-02-About-expectations.jpg\" alt=\"6-07-02 About expectations\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"3 of 5\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/6-07-03-About-expectations.jpg\" alt=\"6-07-03 About expectations\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"4 of 5\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/6-07-04-About-expectations.jpg\" alt=\"6-07-04 About expectations\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"5 of 5\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/6-07-05-About-expectations.jpg\" alt=\"6-07-05 About expectations\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-pagination\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-47dbd939 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"47dbd939\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Adelsmanden frier til sin k\u00e6reste. Hun bliver rigtig glad. Han fort\u00e6ller hende om de dr\u00f8mme, han har om, hvordan de skal giftes. Hun bliver endnu gladere. Han \u00f8nsker sig b\u00f8rn med hende, og hun vil gerne have b\u00f8rn med ham. Hun f\u00e5r en ring, der er flottere, end hun nogensinde havde forestillet sig.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e3c0964 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e3c0964\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35b3088 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"35b3088\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79d49ae elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"79d49ae\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\"Der var engang en kvinde, der vidste, at l\u00f8gn er den sikre vej til selvdestruktion.\"\n\n\n\n\n\n<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d2d2c60 p1head elementor-widget elementor-widget-jet-headline\" data-id=\"d2d2c60\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"jet-headline.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"jet-headline jet-headline--direction-horizontal\"><span class=\"jet-headline__part jet-headline__first\"><span class=\"jet-headline__label\">Id\u00e9en<\/span><\/span><span class=\"jet-headline__space\">&nbsp;<\/span><span class=\"jet-headline__part jet-headline__second\"><span class=\"jet-headline__label\">om forventning<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2696578 p1divider elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"2696578\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cd92907 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"cd92907\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Forventning \u2013 forestilling som man (bevidst) g\u00f8r sig om noget fremtidigt; det, man forventer af noget eller nogen.<\/p><p>I enhver relation og s\u00e6rligt i k\u00e6rlige og seksuelle relationer er det essentielt at afstemme hinandens forventninger, for at samv\u00e6ret kan f\u00e5 et godt afs\u00e6t for succes. Det fordrer f\u00f8rst og fremmest, at hver af parterne er bevidste eller g\u00f8r sig bevidste om, hvilke forventninger, \u00f8nsker og behov, der skal opfyldes og p\u00e5 hvilken m\u00e5de. Det kr\u00e6ver derfor en evne til dels at kunne m\u00e6rke sig selv, dels at kunne itales\u00e6tte det p\u00e5 s\u00e5vel et indre som et ydre plan. Det kr\u00e6ver kontaktfuld og empatisk kommunikation, s\u00e5 romantikken eller samv\u00e6ret ikke bliver sl\u00e5et i stykker.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4cf0a14 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"4cf0a14\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fc99eaf elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-19302 elementor-global-9175 elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"fc99eaf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" 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for succes. Det fordrer f\u00f8rst og fremmest, at hver af parterne er bevidste eller g\u00f8r sig bevidste om, hvilke forventninger, \u00f8nsker og behov, der skal opfyldes og p\u00e5 hvilken m\u00e5de. Det kr\u00e6ver derfor en evne til dels at kunne m\u00e6rke sig selv, dels at kunne itales\u00e6tte det p\u00e5 s\u00e5vel et indre som et ydre plan. Det kr\u00e6ver kontaktfuld og empatisk kommunikation, s\u00e5 romantikken eller samv\u00e6ret ikke bliver sl\u00e5et i stykker. Det kr\u00e6ver med andre ord, at vi er i stand til at mestre en lang r\u00e6kke kompetencer p\u00e5 samme tid, for at vi kan lykkes i relationen. Det kr\u00e6ver ogs\u00e5, at vi kan hj\u00e6lpe den anden med at itales\u00e6tte noget af det, der kan v\u00e6re allermest uvant og s\u00e5rbart at itales\u00e6tte. Som meget andet i livet begynder det med \u00e9n selv.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":28,"featured_media":8035,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_surecart_dashboard_logo_width":"180px","_surecart_dashboard_show_logo":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_orders":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_invoices":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_subscriptions":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_downloads":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_billing":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_account":true,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2142],"tags":[2461],"display-group":[2973],"class_list":["post-20527","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-goer-verden-smukkere-6","tag-create-a-better-world-6-da","display-group-cabw-featured"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":6}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20527","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/28"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20527"}],"version-history":[{"count":24,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20527\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36336,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20527\/revisions\/36336"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20527"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20527"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20527"},{"taxonomy":"display-group","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/display-group?post=20527"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}