{"id":20092,"date":"2023-01-25T15:09:30","date_gmt":"2023-01-25T14:09:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/about-setting-boundaries\/"},"modified":"2024-07-21T22:12:31","modified_gmt":"2024-07-21T20:12:31","slug":"om-graensesaetning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/om-graensesaetning\/","title":{"rendered":"3-13 Om gr\u00e6nses\u00e6tning"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"20092\" class=\"elementor elementor-20092 elementor-1810\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6d7fe507 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"6d7fe507\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-215deea elementor-pagination-position-inside elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-carousel\" data-id=\"215deea\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;slides_to_show&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;navigation&quot;:&quot;dots&quot;,&quot;pause_on_hover&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;pause_on_interaction&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;effect&quot;:&quot;fade&quot;,&quot;autoplay_speed&quot;:7500,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;infinite&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;speed&quot;:500}\" data-widget_type=\"image-carousel.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel-wrapper swiper\" role=\"region\" aria-roledescription=\"carousel\" aria-label=\"Billedkarussel\" dir=\"ltr\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel swiper-wrapper\" aria-live=\"off\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"1 of 3\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/3-13-01-About-setting-boundaries-1.jpg\" alt=\"3-13-01 About setting boundaries\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"2 of 3\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/3-13-02-About-setting-boundaries-1.jpg\" alt=\"3-13-02 About setting boundaries\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"3 of 3\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/3-13-03-About-setting-boundaries-1.jpg\" alt=\"3-13-03 About setting boundaries\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-pagination\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-73727ef0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"73727ef0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Prinsessen sidder ved f\u00f8dselsdagsbordet og spiser \u2013 flankeret af en prins og en adelsmand. Adelsmanden bliver mere og mere gr\u00e6nseoverskridende, s\u00e5 prinsessen til sidst ikke kan v\u00e6re p\u00e5 sin egen stol.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5ddc161 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"5ddc161\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9d55a85 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"9d55a85\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6a2a17 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e6a2a17\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\"Der var engang en s\u00f8d kvinde, der blev invaderet.\"<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-377e07e p1-artikel elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"377e07e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Id\u00e9en <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">om gr\u00e6nses\u00e6tning<\/span><\/h2><p>Det er en vigtig foruds\u00e6tning for at kunne m\u00e6rke os selv, at vi s\u00e6tter gr\u00e6nser og er afgr\u00e6nsede i forhold til vores omverdens \u00f8nsker og behov. Vi m\u00e5 holde orden i vores eget hus, v\u00e6re ansvarlige, synlige og tydelige, hvis vi skal bevare os selv som hele individer.<\/p><p>Som voksne har vi selv ansvaret for at sige til og fra, men en eller flere h\u00e6ndelser i barndommen kan influere p\u00e5 vores nutidige evne til at sige fra. Er vi eksempelvis ikke vant til at blive h\u00f8rt, er vi blevet udsat for en overmagt fra en voksen, der har tilsidesat vores \u00f8nsker og behov eller m\u00e5ske direkte har beg\u00e5et overgreb imod os af psykisk eller fysisk art, har vi ikke f\u00e5et skilt os fra vores for\u00e6ldre og deres behov, og lider vi som f\u00f8lge deraf af at have g\u00e5et for l\u00e6nge i flinkeskolen \u2013 ja, s\u00e5 er det sv\u00e6rt at sige fra.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b39e862 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"b39e862\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-131f772 elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-19302 elementor-global-9175 elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"131f772\" 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