{"id":20072,"date":"2023-01-25T17:01:12","date_gmt":"2023-01-25T16:01:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/about-self-pity\/"},"modified":"2024-08-07T15:58:44","modified_gmt":"2024-08-07T13:58:44","slug":"om-selvmedlidenhed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/om-selvmedlidenhed\/","title":{"rendered":"3-15 Om selvmedlidenhed"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"20072\" class=\"elementor elementor-20072 elementor-1819\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-36af24a3 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"36af24a3\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3bb5a41c elementor-pagination-position-inside elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-carousel\" data-id=\"3bb5a41c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;slides_to_show&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;navigation&quot;:&quot;dots&quot;,&quot;pause_on_hover&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;pause_on_interaction&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;effect&quot;:&quot;fade&quot;,&quot;autoplay_speed&quot;:7500,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;infinite&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;speed&quot;:500}\" data-widget_type=\"image-carousel.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel-wrapper swiper\" role=\"region\" aria-roledescription=\"carousel\" aria-label=\"Billedkarussel\" dir=\"ltr\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel swiper-wrapper\" aria-live=\"off\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"1 of 1\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/3-15-01-About-self-pity-1.jpg\" alt=\"3-15-01 About self-pity\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-36d821ff elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"36d821ff\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">En adelsdame gr\u00e6der og synes, at det er synd for hende selv.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d1cc7f5 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"d1cc7f5\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-07aed20 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"07aed20\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b943813 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b943813\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\"Der var engang en kvinde, der ofte m\u00e6rkede, hvor synd det var for hende selv.\"\n\n\n\n\n\n<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4fa26d3 p1-artikel elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4fa26d3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Id\u00e9en <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">om selvmedlidenhed<\/span><\/h2><p>N\u00e5r vi tror, at ingen andre har medlidenhed med os, har vi det ofte med os selv.<\/p><p>N\u00e5r vi m\u00f8der modstand i livet, reagerer vi hver is\u00e6r forskelligt. Nogle af os har manglet omsorg og interesse i vores opv\u00e6kst. Det sl\u00e5r igennem i krisesituationer, hvor vi udover at skulle tackle krisen ogs\u00e5 skal tackle vores smerte i forhold til den manglende omsorg og manglende indre ressourcer. Vi regredierer og kommer p\u00e5 afstand af vores ansvarlige, voksne jeg og synes, at det er synd for os, at vi er havnet i den givne situation. Vores forsvar beskytter os s\u00e5 godt, at hvis nogen skulle f\u00f8le omsorg for os, undlader vi at m\u00e6rke dette og forbliver i den velkendte selvmedlidenhed.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-72f428e e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"72f428e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9b85b54 elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-19302 elementor-global-9175 elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"9b85b54\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" 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Nogle af os har manglet omsorg og interesse i vores opv\u00e6kst. Det sl\u00e5r igennem i krisesituationer, hvor vi udover at skulle tackle krisen ogs\u00e5 skal tackle vores smerte i forhold til den manglende omsorg og manglende indre ressourcer. Vi regredierer og kommer p\u00e5 afstand af vores ansvarlige, voksne jeg og synes, at det er synd for os, at vi er havnet i den givne situation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":28,"featured_media":36203,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_surecart_dashboard_logo_width":"180px","_surecart_dashboard_show_logo":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_orders":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_invoices":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_subscriptions":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_downloads":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_billing":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_account":true,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2139],"tags":[2401],"display-group":[],"class_list":["post-20072","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-goer-verden-smukkere-3","tag-create-a-better-world-3-da"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":6}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20072","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/28"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20072"}],"version-history":[{"count":56,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20072\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36199,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20072\/revisions\/36199"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/36203"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20072"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20072"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20072"},{"taxonomy":"display-group","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/display-group?post=20072"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}