{"id":19809,"date":"2023-01-27T16:02:06","date_gmt":"2023-01-27T15:02:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/about-projective-identification\/"},"modified":"2024-07-21T09:45:09","modified_gmt":"2024-07-21T07:45:09","slug":"om-projektiv-identifikation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/om-projektiv-identifikation\/","title":{"rendered":"3-36 Om projektiv identifikation"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"19809\" class=\"elementor elementor-19809 elementor-2266\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5f0c15dc e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"5f0c15dc\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-31ed53ba e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"31ed53ba\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;position&quot;:&quot;absolute&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79dd77f3 elementor-widget__width-auto elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-6392 elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"79dd77f3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;,&quot;_animation_delay&quot;:1000}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><b>P<\/b> for Psychology<\/span>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7b39f940 elementor-pagination-position-inside elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-carousel\" data-id=\"7b39f940\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;slides_to_show&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;navigation&quot;:&quot;dots&quot;,&quot;pause_on_hover&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;pause_on_interaction&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;effect&quot;:&quot;fade&quot;,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;autoplay_speed&quot;:5000,&quot;infinite&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;speed&quot;:500}\" data-widget_type=\"image-carousel.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel-wrapper swiper\" role=\"region\" aria-roledescription=\"carousel\" aria-label=\"Billedkarussel\" dir=\"ltr\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel swiper-wrapper\" aria-live=\"off\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"1 of 3\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/3-36-01-About-projective-identification-1.jpg\" alt=\"3-36-01 About projective identification\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"2 of 3\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/3-36-02-About-projective-identification-1.jpg\" alt=\"3-36-02 About projective identification\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"3 of 3\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/3-36-03-About-projective-identification-1.jpg\" alt=\"3-36-03 About projective identification\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-pagination\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2c5cf5bd elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2c5cf5bd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">En adelsdame takker nej til at b\u00e6re en hat, som en anden adelsdame tilbyder hende. Adelsdamen bliver ved med at presse p\u00e5 og siger, at hun jo er en festlig pige, der sagtens kan b\u00e6re en sjov hat. I den sidste tegning har hun taget hatten p\u00e5 og fors\u00f8ger at opf\u00f8re sig festligt.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c08a59 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"6c08a59\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-73356b0 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"73356b0\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2055157 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2055157\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\"Der var engang en kvinde, der blev det, de andre sagde, hun var.\"\n\n\n\n\n\n<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-44411b4 p1-artikel elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"44411b4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Id\u00e9en <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">om projektiv identifikation<\/span><\/h2><p>Projektiv identifikation finder sted, n\u00e5r vi g\u00f8r os til det, andre siger, vi er. Sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5let er, hvordan vi overhovedet kan finde p\u00e5 at g\u00f8re det? Hvordan kan vi finde p\u00e5 at identificere os med en andens forestilling om os og blive til noget, vi ikke er? Det faktum, at vi ikke bliver set, som den vi er, at vi ikke insisterer p\u00e5 at blive set, som den vi er, at vi ikke bare forlader stedet, men i stedet forlader os selv og dermed behandler os selv uk\u00e6rligt, leder frem til det eneste svar, der er svaret p\u00e5 flertallet af de udfordringer, vi mennesker har. Lavt selvv\u00e6rd. Alts\u00e5 en lav grad af egenk\u00e6rlighed, der har medf\u00f8rt en f\u00f8lelsesm\u00e6ssig hungren efter k\u00e6rlighed, der g\u00f8r, at vi hellere vil opgive os selv og tilfredsstille andres forestilling om os frem for at st\u00e5 ved os selv og give os den n\u00e6ring, vi har brug for. Grunden til, at vi g\u00f8r det, er ganske enkelt, at vi ikke har l\u00e6rt bedre.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6c883d e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e6c883d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e926399 elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-19302 elementor-global-9175 elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"e926399\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" 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class=\"elementor-toc__header-title\">\n\t\t\t\tIndholdsfortegnelse\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div id=\"elementor-toc__e926399\" class=\"elementor-toc__body\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__spinner-container\">\n\t\t\t\t<i class=\"elementor-toc__spinner eicon-animation-spin eicon-loading\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-37ca548 elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-24750 elementor-global-8620 elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"37ca548\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\">\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"container\" data-elementor-id=\"24752\" class=\"elementor elementor-24752 elementor-8546 elementor-8546\" 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Sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5let er, hvordan vi overhovedet kan finde p\u00e5 at g\u00f8re det? Hvordan kan vi finde p\u00e5 at identificere os med en andens forestilling om os og blive til noget, vi ikke er? Det faktum, at vi ikke bliver set, som den vi er, at vi ikke insisterer p\u00e5 at blive set, som den vi er, at vi ikke bare forlader stedet, men i stedet forlader os selv og dermed behandler os selv uk\u00e6rligt, leder frem til det eneste svar, der er svaret p\u00e5 flertallet af de udfordringer, vi mennesker har. Lavt selvv\u00e6rd. Alts\u00e5 en lav grad af egenk\u00e6rlighed, der har medf\u00f8rt en f\u00f8lelsesm\u00e6ssig hungren efter k\u00e6rlighed, der g\u00f8r, at vi hellere vil opgive os selv og tilfredsstille andres forestilling om os frem for at st\u00e5 ved os selv og give os den n\u00e6ring, vi har brug for. Grunden til, at vi g\u00f8r det, er ganske enkelt, at vi ikke har l\u00e6rt bedre.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":28,"featured_media":7982,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_surecart_dashboard_logo_width":"180px","_surecart_dashboard_show_logo":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_orders":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_invoices":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_subscriptions":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_downloads":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_billing":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_account":true,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2139],"tags":[2401],"display-group":[],"class_list":["post-19809","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-goer-verden-smukkere-3","tag-create-a-better-world-3-da"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":6}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19809","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/28"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19809"}],"version-history":[{"count":21,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19809\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34758,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19809\/revisions\/34758"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7982"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19809"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19809"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19809"},{"taxonomy":"display-group","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/display-group?post=19809"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}