{"id":19758,"date":"2023-01-16T21:30:09","date_gmt":"2023-01-16T20:30:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/about-guilt\/"},"modified":"2024-07-21T06:31:41","modified_gmt":"2024-07-21T04:31:41","slug":"om-skyldfolelse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/om-skyldfolelse\/","title":{"rendered":"2-05 Om skyldf\u00f8lelse"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"19758\" class=\"elementor elementor-19758 elementor-1289\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-755e2f7b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"755e2f7b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a4d17d3 elementor-pagination-position-inside elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-carousel\" data-id=\"4a4d17d3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;slides_to_show&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;navigation&quot;:&quot;dots&quot;,&quot;pause_on_hover&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;pause_on_interaction&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;effect&quot;:&quot;fade&quot;,&quot;autoplay_speed&quot;:7500,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;infinite&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;speed&quot;:500}\" data-widget_type=\"image-carousel.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel-wrapper swiper\" role=\"region\" aria-roledescription=\"carousel\" aria-label=\"Billedkarussel\" dir=\"ltr\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel swiper-wrapper\" aria-live=\"off\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"1 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/2-05-01-About-guilt-1.jpg\" alt=\"2-05-01 About guilt\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"2 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/2-05-02-About-guilt-1.jpg\" alt=\"2-05-02 About guilt\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"3 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/2-05-03-About-guilt-1.jpg\" alt=\"2-05-03 About guilt\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"4 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/2-05-04-About-guilt-1.jpg\" alt=\"2-05-04 About guilt\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"5 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/2-05-05-About-guilt-1.jpg\" alt=\"2-05-05 About guilt\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"6 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/2-05-06-About-guilt-1.jpg\" alt=\"2-05-06 About guilt\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-pagination\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6ea6911f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6ea6911f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Den lille prinsesse viser stolt sit mesterv\u00e6rk til dronningen, der ikke synes, at det er s\u00e5dan billedet skal v\u00e6re. Dronningen ser, at prinsessen g\u00e5r i st\u00e5, og hun m\u00e6rker sin inkompetence og sorg, mens hun t\u00e6nker p\u00e5, at hun gerne ville kunne m\u00f8de prinsessen der, hvor hun er og hj\u00e6lpe hende til at blive dygtig og anerkendt. Mange \u00e5r efter f\u00f8ler dronningen stadig skyld.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b8ccf3b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"b8ccf3b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-000fca9 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"000fca9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c71c55 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4c71c55\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">''Der var engang en kvinde, der f\u00f8lte skyld. Hun vidste ikke, at det var fordi, hun skyldte sig selv noget.''\n<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-658a3b4 p1-artikel elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"658a3b4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Id\u00e9en <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">om skyldf\u00f8lelse<\/span><\/h2><p>N\u00e5r vi f\u00f8ler skyld, er det fordi vi i forbindelse med en uordentlig handling eller undladelse kommer til at skylde os selv noget. Nemlig, at acceptere, at vi p\u00e5 tidspunktet for vores handling ikke kunne g\u00f8re andet, end det vi gjorde p\u00e5 grund af manglende personlige kompetencer.<\/p><p>P\u00e5 afstand af handlingen st\u00e5r vi tilbage med \u00f8nsket om at kunne have handlet anderledes. \u00d8nsket er fint og sundt, men en illusion, der ikke har afs\u00e6t i den konkrete virkelighed.<\/p><p>Konsekvenserne af den uordentlige handling, afstanden mellem \u00f8nske og personlige kompetencer p\u00e5 tidspunktet for handlingen genererer skyldf\u00f8lelsen.Vi skylder os selv at erkende dette og at bruge skyldf\u00f8lelsen som et udviklingsm\u00e6ssigt afs\u00e6t til forandring.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cf11783 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"cf11783\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div 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