{"id":19233,"date":"2022-12-11T16:30:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-11T15:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/about-rejection\/"},"modified":"2024-07-20T16:21:00","modified_gmt":"2024-07-20T14:21:00","slug":"om-afvisning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/om-afvisning\/","title":{"rendered":"1-09 Om afvisning"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"19233\" class=\"elementor elementor-19233 elementor-400\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-78fc5d86 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"78fc5d86\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5fc5d032 elementor-pagination-position-inside elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-carousel\" data-id=\"5fc5d032\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;slides_to_show&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;navigation&quot;:&quot;dots&quot;,&quot;pause_on_hover&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;pause_on_interaction&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;effect&quot;:&quot;fade&quot;,&quot;autoplay_speed&quot;:7500,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;infinite&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;speed&quot;:500}\" data-widget_type=\"image-carousel.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel-wrapper swiper\" role=\"region\" aria-roledescription=\"carousel\" aria-label=\"Billedkarussel\" dir=\"ltr\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel swiper-wrapper\" aria-live=\"off\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"1 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-09-01-About-rejection-2.jpg\" alt=\"1-09-01 About rejection\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"2 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-09-02-About-rejection-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-09-02 About rejection\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"3 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-09-03-About-rejection-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-09-03 About rejection\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"4 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-09-04-About-rejection-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-09-04 About rejection\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"5 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-09-05-About-rejection-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-09-05 About rejection\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"6 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-09-06-About-rejection-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-09-06 About rejection\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-pagination\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3537e367 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3537e367\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Den smukke selvbevidste prinsesse kommer g\u00e5ende. Adelsm\u00e6ndene synes, at hun er dejlig. S\u00e5 kommer en fl\u00f8jtende bondedreng forbi. Prinsessen r\u00f8dmer og forelsker sig omg\u00e5ende i ham. Bondedrengen ser ikke prinsessen og fl\u00f8jter intetanende videre p\u00e5 sin f\u00e6rd. Prinsessen stivner, f\u00f8ler sig afvist og r\u00e5ber ad bondedrengen, der ikke lige ved, hvad der ramte ham.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-612003f8 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"612003f8\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-63831a9e e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"63831a9e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4601a32 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4601a32\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">''Der var engang en kvinde, der troede, at det var de andre og ikke hende selv, der afviste hende, n\u00e5r der var noget, hun gerne ville.''<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e889def p1-artikel elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1e889def\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Id\u00e9en <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">om afvisning<\/span><\/h2><p>Inden for den terapeutiske skole, hvor jeg er uddannet, siger vi, at den eneste, der kan afvise en, er en selv. \u00d8nsker du dig noget, har du et behov, du har brug for at f\u00e5 d\u00e6kket eller andet, du vil opn\u00e5, m\u00e5 du blive ved med at s\u00f8ge det opfyldt, til du enten f\u00e5r det, du vil have, eller til afvisningen er blevet s\u00e5 grim, at du ikke l\u00e6ngere vil have det. Umiddelbart kan det m\u00e5ske synes provokerende eller udfordrende i forhold til din stolthed, men konsekvensen af at opgive dit \u00f8nske er, at du ikke f\u00e5r det, du gerne vil have, og at du bliver ked af det. Resignation er ikke befordrende for selvv\u00e6rd, k\u00e6rlighed og god livskvalitet.<\/p><p>Afvisningsmodellen er selvv\u00e6rdsopbyggende, n\u00e5r du tager dine behov og \u00f8nsker alvorlige. Det er s\u00e5 op til den anden part enten at im\u00f8dekomme eller afvise \u00f8nskerne.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43698da0 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"43698da0\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aab269e elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-19302 elementor-global-9175 elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"aab269e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" 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have, eller til afvisningen er blevet s\u00e5 grim, at du ikke l\u00e6ngere vil have det. Umiddelbart kan det m\u00e5ske synes provokerende eller udfordrende i forhold til din stolthed, men konsekvensen af at opgive dit \u00f8nske er, at du ikke f\u00e5r det, du gerne vil have, og at du bliver ked af det. Resignation er ikke befordrende for selvv\u00e6rd, k\u00e6rlighed og god livskvalitet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":28,"featured_media":7649,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_surecart_dashboard_logo_width":"180px","_surecart_dashboard_show_logo":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_orders":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_invoices":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_subscriptions":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_downloads":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_billing":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_account":true,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1818],"tags":[1819],"display-group":[],"class_list":["post-19233","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-goer-verden-smukkere-1","tag-create-a-better-world-1-da"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":6}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19233","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/28"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19233"}],"version-history":[{"count":24,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19233\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34353,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19233\/revisions\/34353"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7649"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19233"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19233"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19233"},{"taxonomy":"display-group","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/display-group?post=19233"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}