{"id":19163,"date":"2022-12-11T14:30:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-11T13:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/about-feeling-hurt\/"},"modified":"2024-07-20T16:34:17","modified_gmt":"2024-07-20T14:34:17","slug":"about-feeling-hurt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/about-feeling-hurt\/","title":{"rendered":"1-11 Om s\u00e5rethed"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"19163\" class=\"elementor elementor-19163 elementor-417\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5e0dce22 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"5e0dce22\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-72f0c4c9 elementor-pagination-position-inside elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-carousel\" data-id=\"72f0c4c9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;slides_to_show&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;navigation&quot;:&quot;dots&quot;,&quot;pause_on_hover&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;pause_on_interaction&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;effect&quot;:&quot;fade&quot;,&quot;autoplay_speed&quot;:7500,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;infinite&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;speed&quot;:500}\" data-widget_type=\"image-carousel.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel-wrapper swiper\" role=\"region\" aria-roledescription=\"carousel\" aria-label=\"Billedkarussel\" dir=\"ltr\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel swiper-wrapper\" aria-live=\"off\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"1 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-11-01-About-feeling-hurt-2.jpg\" alt=\"1-11-01 About feeling hurt\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"2 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-11-02-About-feeling-hurt-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-11-02 About feeling hurt\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"3 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-11-03-About-feeling-hurt-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-11-03 About feeling hurt\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"4 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-11-04-About-feeling-hurt-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-11-04 About feeling hurt\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-pagination\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-50555e8c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"50555e8c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">En adelsmand kommer g\u00e5ende med en usynlig pil i brystet. Han ser et par drenge st\u00e5 og skyde med bue og pil. Adelsmanden bliver vred og sk\u00e6lder dem ud, hvorefter han bryder gr\u00e6dende sammen til drengenes store overraskelse.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-302dfe4b e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"302dfe4b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-24d39d5d e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"24d39d5d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-13ddbbc elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"13ddbbc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">''Der var engang en mand, der troede, at han blev s\u00e5ret, hver gang nogen satte ham i kontakt med et gammelt s\u00e5r.''<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-45d94c3b p1-artikel elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"45d94c3b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Id\u00e9en <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">om s\u00e5rethed<\/span><\/h2><p>\u201cDu s\u00e5rede mig\u201d, sagde jeg f\u00f8r i tiden om den oplevelse af \u201cked-af-det-hed\u201d, der fyldte mig, n\u00e5r et andet menneske sagde eller gjorde noget, der f\u00f8lelsesm\u00e6ssigt gjorde ondt p\u00e5 mig. Mit udsagn p\u00e5f\u00f8rte skyldf\u00f8lelse, for noget den anden uforvarende og uvidende om mine skjulte s\u00e5rbarheder var kommet til at trigge. Dengang vidste jeg ikke, at mine s\u00e5r var blevet etableret i barndommen p\u00e5 et tidspunkt, hvor jeg ikke var i stand til at forsvare mig f\u00f8lelsesm\u00e6ssigt. Og at den, der if\u00f8lge min egen overbevisning, stod lige der og s\u00e5rede mig i mit voksne liv, i virkeligheden uforvarende satte mig i kontakt med et gammelt s\u00e5r og alts\u00e5 ikke skabte et nyt s\u00e5r. Ofte har nogen i min omgangskreds eller jeg selv sagt noget, der har sat andre i kontakt med gamle s\u00e5r.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-58469a2 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"58469a2\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5e2fa065 elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-19302 elementor-global-9175 elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"5e2fa065\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" 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Mit udsagn p\u00e5f\u00f8rte skyldf\u00f8lelse, for noget den anden uforvarende og uvidende om mine skjulte s\u00e5rbarheder var kommet til at trigge. Dengang vidste jeg ikke, at mine s\u00e5r var blevet etableret i barndommen p\u00e5 et tidspunkt, hvor jeg ikke var i stand til at forsvare mig f\u00f8lelsesm\u00e6ssigt. Og at den, der if\u00f8lge min egen overbevisning, stod lige der og s\u00e5rede mig i mit voksne liv, i virkeligheden uforvarende satte mig i kontakt med et gammelt s\u00e5r og alts\u00e5 ikke skabte et nyt s\u00e5r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":28,"featured_media":7651,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_surecart_dashboard_logo_width":"180px","_surecart_dashboard_show_logo":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_orders":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_invoices":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_subscriptions":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_downloads":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_billing":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_account":true,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1818],"tags":[1819],"display-group":[],"class_list":["post-19163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-goer-verden-smukkere-1","tag-create-a-better-world-1-da"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":6}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/28"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19163"}],"version-history":[{"count":23,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19163\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34359,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19163\/revisions\/34359"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7651"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19163"},{"taxonomy":"display-group","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/display-group?post=19163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}