{"id":19070,"date":"2023-01-30T15:51:25","date_gmt":"2023-01-30T14:51:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/about-being-driven-by-ideals\/"},"modified":"2024-07-20T17:27:26","modified_gmt":"2024-07-20T15:27:26","slug":"om-idealstyring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/om-idealstyring\/","title":{"rendered":"1-18 Om idealstyring"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"19070\" class=\"elementor elementor-19070 elementor-2401\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-af8b7ac e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"af8b7ac\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-29499385 elementor-pagination-position-inside elementor-widget 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class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1-18-01-About-being-driven-by-ideals.jpg\" alt=\"1-18-01 About being driven by ideals\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"2 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1-18-02-About-being-driven-by-ideals.jpg\" alt=\"1-18-02 About being driven by ideals\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"3 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1-18-03-About-being-driven-by-ideals.jpg\" alt=\"1-18-03 About being driven by ideals\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"4 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1-18-04-About-being-driven-by-ideals.jpg\" alt=\"1-18-04 About being driven by ideals\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-pagination\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7aae39d6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7aae39d6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">En adelsmand efterligner kongen, dronningen og prinsessens udtryk og v\u00e6rem\u00e5de i h\u00e5bet om, at det, de g\u00f8r og st\u00e5r for, ogs\u00e5 vil g\u00f8re ham tilfreds.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ed8cfb8 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"ed8cfb8\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3fd9118 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"3fd9118\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-28fb03d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"28fb03d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">''Der var engang en idealstyret mand, som netop derfor ikke var tilfreds.''<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8aac79e p1-artikel elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8aac79e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Id\u00e9en <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">om idealstyring tegningerne i ord<\/span><\/h2><p>At v\u00e6re udefra styret. At kopiere andres tanker og v\u00e6rem\u00e5de og id\u00e9en om, at de mennesker vi ser op til har \u201cden rigtige\u201d adf\u00e6rd, som vi s\u00e5 ukritisk og ureflekteret kopierer. Da vi var b\u00f8rn, var idealerne mor og far. I skolen m\u00e5ske en s\u00e6rlig rar og kompetent l\u00e6rer. Nu m\u00e5ske et idol, en leder, en k\u00e6reste, partner eller et andet menneske, vi ser op til.<\/p><p>At leve sit liv ved at v\u00e6re udefra styret af idealernes liv og v\u00e6rem\u00e5de er en uhensigtsm\u00e6ssig forts\u00e6ttelse af den tidlige barndoms m\u00e5de at v\u00e6re i verden p\u00e5.<\/p><p>Ikke desto mindre er det noget, vi som voksne alle g\u00f8r i et vist omfang. S\u00e6rligt i udviklingsperioder indtr\u00e6der ofte markante overgangsobjekter (idealer) i vores jeg og bliver en del heraf. Det er naturligt og er med til at forme os som mennesker.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a6935e0 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a6935e0\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7c5dd0a elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-19302 elementor-global-9175 elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"7c5dd0a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" 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At kopiere andres tanker og v\u00e6rem\u00e5de og id\u00e9en om, at de mennesker vi ser op til har \u201cden rigtige\u201d adf\u00e6rd, som vi s\u00e5 ukritisk og ureflekteret kopierer. Da vi var b\u00f8rn, var idealerne mor og far. I skolen m\u00e5ske en s\u00e6rlig rar og kompetent l\u00e6rer. Nu m\u00e5ske et idol, en leder, en k\u00e6reste, partner eller et andet menneske, vi ser op til.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":28,"featured_media":8041,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_surecart_dashboard_logo_width":"180px","_surecart_dashboard_show_logo":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_orders":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_invoices":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_subscriptions":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_downloads":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_billing":true,"_surecart_dashboard_navigation_account":true,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1818],"tags":[1819],"display-group":[],"class_list":["post-19070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-goer-verden-smukkere-1","tag-create-a-better-world-1-da"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":6}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19070","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/28"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19070"}],"version-history":[{"count":29,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19070\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34392,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19070\/revisions\/34392"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8041"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19070"},{"taxonomy":"display-group","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/display-group?post=19070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}