{"id":19064,"date":"2023-01-30T16:05:26","date_gmt":"2023-01-30T15:05:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/about-being-seen\/"},"modified":"2024-07-20T17:35:00","modified_gmt":"2024-07-20T15:35:00","slug":"om-at-blive-set","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/om-at-blive-set\/","title":{"rendered":"1-19 Om at blive set"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"19064\" class=\"elementor elementor-19064 elementor-2405\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79e46801 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"79e46801\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-69901cd3 elementor-pagination-position-inside elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-carousel\" data-id=\"69901cd3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;slides_to_show&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;navigation&quot;:&quot;dots&quot;,&quot;pause_on_hover&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;pause_on_interaction&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;effect&quot;:&quot;fade&quot;,&quot;autoplay_speed&quot;:7500,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;infinite&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;speed&quot;:500}\" data-widget_type=\"image-carousel.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel-wrapper swiper\" role=\"region\" aria-roledescription=\"carousel\" aria-label=\"Billedkarussel\" dir=\"ltr\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel swiper-wrapper\" aria-live=\"off\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"1 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1-19-01-About-being-seen-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-19-01 About being seen\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"2 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1-19-02-About-being-seen-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-19-02 About being seen\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"3 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1-19-03-About-being-seen-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-19-03 About being seen\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"4 of 4\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/1-19-04-About-being-seen-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-19-04 About being seen\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-pagination\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3ebc42c5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3ebc42c5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">En adelsmand har brug for at blive set som den, han er. Han fort\u00e6ller noget personligt til dronningen, der ikke reagerer p\u00e5 ham. Han udtrykker sig tydeligere og tydeligere, uden at hun reagerer. F\u00f8rst da han vred og indest\u00e6ngt vender ryggen til hende, reagerer hun med et tr\u00f8stende smil og en overfladisk bem\u00e6rkning. Hun har ikke set ham.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f4bd67f e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"f4bd67f\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0cec712 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"0cec712\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-053306d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"053306d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">''Der var en utilfreds mand, der forstod vigtigheden i at g\u00f8re det, han havde behov for, men manglede at blive set som den, han var.''<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-97b00f5 p1-artikel elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"97b00f5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Id\u00e9en <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">om at blive set<\/span><\/h2><p>Ethvert menneske har et grundl\u00e6ggende behov for at blive set, rummet og accepteret som det menneske, det er. N\u00e5r behovet er opfyldt, falder sp\u00e6ndingen, og vi kan koncentrere os om noget andet.<\/p><p>Hvad skal der til, for at vi kan blive set p\u00e5 et f\u00f8lelsesm\u00e6ssigt plan? F\u00f8rst og fremmest skal der v\u00e6re en naturlig interesse, et milj\u00f8, der fremmer lysten til at vise, hvem vi er som mennesker. N\u00e6ste del er at turde vise, hvem vi er. Sidste del er, at den, der ser os, viser og eventuelt fort\u00e6ller, hvad vedkommende ser.<\/p><p>Mennesker, der er s\u00e6rligt gode til at se andre mennesker forst\u00e5r at \u201cl\u00e6se mellem linjerne\u201d &#8211; og forst\u00e5r at kommunikere det observerede p\u00e5 en empatisk og k\u00e6rlig m\u00e5de. 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