{"id":18116,"date":"2022-12-11T20:27:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-11T19:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/about-needs\/"},"modified":"2024-07-20T15:19:37","modified_gmt":"2024-07-20T13:19:37","slug":"om-behov","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/da\/om-behov\/","title":{"rendered":"1-02 Om behov"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"18116\" class=\"elementor elementor-18116 elementor-328\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43081417 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"43081417\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-30034166 elementor-pagination-position-inside elementor-widget elementor-widget-image-carousel\" data-id=\"30034166\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;slides_to_show&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;navigation&quot;:&quot;dots&quot;,&quot;pause_on_hover&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;pause_on_interaction&quot;:&quot;no&quot;,&quot;effect&quot;:&quot;fade&quot;,&quot;autoplay_speed&quot;:7500,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;infinite&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;speed&quot;:500}\" data-widget_type=\"image-carousel.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel-wrapper swiper\" role=\"region\" aria-roledescription=\"carousel\" aria-label=\"Billedkarussel\" dir=\"ltr\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image-carousel swiper-wrapper\" aria-live=\"off\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"1 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-02-01-About-needs-3.jpg\" alt=\"1-02-01 About needs\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"2 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-02-02-About-needs-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-02-02 About needs\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"3 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-02-03-About-needs-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-02-03 About needs\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"4 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-02-04-About-needs-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-02-04 About needs\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"5 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-02-05-About-needs-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-02-05 About needs\" \/><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"swiper-slide\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" aria-label=\"6 of 6\"><figure class=\"swiper-slide-inner\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"swiper-slide-image\" src=\"https:\/\/shapeyourfuturelife.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-02-06-About-needs-1.jpg\" alt=\"1-02-06 About needs\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"swiper-pagination\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2966ba65 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2966ba65\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Dragen er utilfreds. Kongen vil ikke g\u00e5 tur med den. Han giver den videre til prinsessen, der bare har brug for at v\u00e6re i fred. S\u00e5 er kongen afsp\u00e6ndt og tilfreds. Dragen halser utilfreds afsted med den modstr\u00e6bende prinsesse. S\u00e5 br\u00e6nder dragen snoren over, og den er fri og tilfreds. Prinsessen er vred og utilfreds, for det var ikke hendes behov at g\u00e5 tur. Prinsessen blev sorteper, fordi hun ikke var opm\u00e6rksom p\u00e5 eller holdt  fast i sin egen behovsopfyldelse, at v\u00e6re i fred.<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3e6d84e1 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"3e6d84e1\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c9f340c e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"4c9f340c\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e66b03f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e66b03f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">''Der var engang en indebr\u00e6ndt kvinde, der havde l\u00e6rt at opfylde andres behov fremfor sine egne behov.''<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-59279ecf p1-artikel elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"59279ecf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Id\u00e9en <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">om behov<\/span><\/h2><p>Ethvert menneske, og ledere i s\u00e6rdeleshed, har stor gavn af at erkende, at de fleste af os er elsket for det, vi g\u00f8r, fremfor for dem vi er. De fleste af os har i en tidlig alder l\u00e6rt, hvad der g\u00f8r vores for\u00e6ldre glade, og hvad der g\u00f8r dem utilfredse. Det har vi hastigt l\u00e6rt at indrette os efter, og herved har vi l\u00e6rt at tilsides\u00e6tte de dele af os selv, der ikke var plads til af frygt for at miste mors eller fars k\u00e6rlighed. Denne adf\u00e6rd er uhensigtsm\u00e6ssig i forhold til opbygning af selvv\u00e6rd gennem egen behovsopfyldelse og tilfredshed. Adf\u00e6rden er samtidig selvv\u00e6rdsnedbrydende.<\/p><p>Menneskets fantastiske evne til at kunne tilsides\u00e6tte sig selv er en st\u00e6rk overlevelsesmekanisme, der sammen med evnen til at kunne fokusere p\u00e5 opfyldelsen af andres behov kan bringe os rigtigt langt s\u00e5vel interpersonelt som karrierem\u00e6ssigt.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-30c43a8a e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"30c43a8a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-975339d elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-19302 elementor-global-9175 elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"975339d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" 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De fleste af os har i en tidlig alder l\u00e6rt, hvad der g\u00f8r vores for\u00e6ldre glade, og hvad der g\u00f8r dem utilfredse. Det har vi hastigt l\u00e6rt at indrette os efter, og herved har vi l\u00e6rt at tilsides\u00e6tte de dele af os selv, der ikke var plads til af frygt for at miste mors eller fars k\u00e6rlighed. Denne adf\u00e6rd er uhensigtsm\u00e6ssig i forhold til opbygning af selvv\u00e6rd gennem egen behovsopfyldelse og tilfredshed. 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